Word of the day:

argy-bargy   \ahr-jee-BAHR-jee or ahr-ghee-BAHR-ghee\   (noun)
     : a lively discussion : argument, dispute

There’s also a slightly older variant, “argle-bargle”. I think I’m in touch with my feminine side, but I have trouble imagining myself using “argy-bargy” in casual conversation without feeling insecure.